
"I have never been the kind
To let too many get behind
The walls that I have built around my heart
Now I find myself afraid
Feeling like I've been betrayed
By one I have trusted from the start"
This is the beginning verse of a great song called To Forgive by CCM artist Al Denson. It talks about how it feels to be stabbed in the back by someone who you thought from the beginning was your friend and had your back. I think we all can relate as to how that feels.
Imagine the pain Jesus felt when one of the guys He trusted, someone who was there as he performed miracles and was in on the most intimate conversations suddenly backstabbed him. That's gotta hurt. Today we live in a society where this seems to be the norm, even among christians. We smile and hug each other, share jokes, dinners, good times, and then wham! The knife goes in.

That has to change folks. When you smile in someone's face and then betray them...that's being a hypocrite. How can we serve the Lord and his people in peace knowing what we've done??? Even worse, how can we expect the person who we stabbed not to know who did it; because it's like the Bible says, nothing stays hidden. Sooner or later your friend or family member will find this out and then what? How will you face them?

You cannot complain when that person writes you out of their life because you are reaping what you sowed. We need to be careful children what we do and say. There are repercussions and consequenses when we turn on people. Even if that person forgives you, they do have a right to phase you out; who can trust a backstabber again after such a thing??.